Thurs. Aug. 4, 2022.
OMG YES! That is terrible! That is loss of empathy and compassion and the beginning of lost humanity! But to myself, I too should try some compassion here! Many people are STRESSED selfish and shallow. Just trying to get by, just trying to eat, PLUS get the rent paid, means one MUST focus solely on the task on hand at the present moment. Worrying about others is a luxury a Left brain Action mind can not focus on. They are completely goal oriented and the goal is SURVIVAL. Survival of the fittest .. if you can not focus on your OWN success .. you are a loser. Yes .. that is a HORRIBLE mean attitude, and inhuman. YET .. who wins? who are the "successful" people? THEY ARE!
They do not allow their mind to have a divided focus, in worrying about "THE OTHER". The OTHER should look after HIMSELF, be responsible for himself. Left brain answer to homelessness? "he should have worked hard like me!" They can SEE no concept of different people not receiving the same advantage of resources. "We all struggle!" is the proof of Left brain. How can you dare compare not having your new dress delivered in time to growing up with an alcoholic not present parent, or even the struggle of actually CARING about others well being. A left brain can not even SEE how much harder that worry makes our life. Our Compassion is a LIABILITY and removes energy and time from our life!
Yes we absolutely must take MORE personal responsibility .. but not without including others, in our actions. Others come first (YOUme) but also past causes and future consequences in our design PLAN. This makes our life INORDINATELY harder than theirs! Ad for that we want to call ourselves VICTIMS
YES !! That is it! "EUREKA, I found it!" We Right brain "Thinkers" want to understand everything .. so we want to CONSIDER causes (past) and consequences (future). But to a SIMPLE closed minded Left Brain this is finding excuses! the same person as the quote above said "There is ALWAYS an excuse with you". My "But I am just trying to find a REASON why .. !" went UNHEARD. So for decades I could not understand my family! sadly I was both born into and created mostly Left Brain Characters. but we were taught NOTHING of this. It will take time but I am SLOWLY beginning to feel compassion for those poor closed minded Left Brains. Had I KNOWN I could have begun to understand and feel less confused forever! Dr Iain McGilchrist "The Master and his Emissary" was written in 2009! It should have been the first thing taught! But who wants us to UNDERSTAND each other .. to get along. Separating us more and more keeps us from REVOLTING. If we minions or church mice actually saw that the real purpose of the power structure is to DIVIDE us .. we might get together AND TAKE OVER. Well now that we know the problem lies in LEFT vs Right brain DIVISION let's try damn hard to feel empathy for the other, and share the asset of the brain side we DO HAVE. BOTH Right AND left are necessary for GOOD solutions. We are BOTH assets if we QUIT demonizing and listen and LEARN from the other!
Our trying to UNDERSTAND everything is a curse and WILL kill us. You think life is not easier just worrying solely over YOU? "we all struggle" are the worst 3 words I know! The utter SHALOWNESS (stupidity ) they convey should help us feel COMPASSION for these poor BRAIN DISABLED people. But then their life is full of black and white .. they do not KNOW grey! the truth is EVERYTHING IS GREY. There is evil and there is EVIL!! There is being "good" and there are SAINTs that help the struggling very day with patience. Nothing is black and white and yet the American Trumpers believe that to be! If his election was stolen why were Gore and Hilary not screaming more .. their votes were closer! They accepted FACTS where trumpets accept ONLY the PART of a fact that suits their version of their OWN reality. A very very frustrating behaviour to deal with. Only now can I breathe a sigh of relief undrsatning my families behaiour. being taught this brain knowledge would certainly have made life a little easier .. rather than always being CONFUSED!
Is that becaseu they are jealous of us? I am jealous of THEIR simple life and how it leads them to EASIER success. A "Me and Mine! Here! and NOW!" goal will always win over "US? past? and Future? curiosity". They are the "successful" ones in our shallow stressed toxic society. If we are jealous of their simple task .. maybe they are jealous of how SMART we are?I think they feel lost as soon as we start talking!
Elizabeth Kuebler Ross.
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